Don’t ask GPT. Ask a Black Woman 💌

STOP! 🛑 ✋🏾 Leave that robot alone, he tired… Trauma dumping on ChatGPT is not it, boo!

Need advice, encouragement, or a quick hype-up? This is your space!

📱 Here, you can share a question, problem, or situation, and I’ll send you back a real, honest response. Sometimes sweet, sometimes tough love, but always with you in mind. No copy and paste, no algorithms, just genuine advice and encouragement from someone who gets it.

(✨ If you want to talk it out instead, call the Happy Black Girl Hotline and get a real 1:1 conversation, here)

Xoxo,

Zozo💋

💖 How It Works

  1. Book your spot — Secure your message through checkout.

  2. Send your question — You’ll get simple instructions to text your letter straight to our hotline number.

  3. Receive your reply — Within 24 hours, you’ll get a response, like your own personal advice column.

📝 Examples You Could Send

• “Dear Happy Black Girl, I’m nervous about a first date. Any advice?”

• “Can you hype me up before my big presentation?”

• “I just need to vent about my week — what would you say to me?”

✨ You can write it like a letter or ask a simple question, either way, you’ll receive a thoughtful, response crafted just for you.

👀 Now You Might Be Thinking… Who the f\*ck are you?

I’m Zoe Joy, founder of HBG! The Happy Black Girl Coach.

Not perfect. But real! And committed to joy as a lifestyle, not a reward. It is my middle name after all…

I’ve been the girl who couldn’t leave the house because of fear and anxiety.

The shy girl with the free spirit that could barely look people in the eye.

The girl who smiled through burnout and exhaustion.

The girl who felt like too much and not enough at the same time.

The girl who moved through survival mode and found her way to happy!

Little by little, I found my way home.

Through trying new things and pushing myself out of my comfort zone.

Through dancing in my kitchen and letting myself feel my honest feelings.

Now I’m here to offer the kind of space I wish I had when I was alone, growing, or just trying to figure it all out!

We're not here to fix you.

We're here to remind you that you’re not alone and your feelings are justified.

Let’s talk boo!

Zoë 💖

Ask a Black Woman Text Line - Privacy & Confidentiality

Your trust and comfort matter. The Ask a Black Woman Text Line is a supportive space for quick conversations, guidance, and emotional support from a Black woman who understands your experience.

  • Confidentiality: Messages are private and will not be shared outside of this service.

  • Limits: This is not therapy, counseling, or medical advice. If you are in crisis, please contact a qualified professional or emergency services.

  • Data: Your phone number, messages, and payment info are handled securely and used only to provide this service.

  • Response Time: We aim to respond within 24 hours to your texts.

By texting the line, you acknowledge and agree to these terms.

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Ask a Black Woman 📱(24/7 Text Hotline)

1:1 Session — 15 minutes

$12