The Happy Black Girl’s Guide to Community

Listen, sis. I see you. You’re busy, life is lifeing, and maybe you just don’t have the energy to find new friends. Maybe you feel turned off from old friendships that went left, or your current friends are just in different places in their lives. Maybe you’re starting to feel a little lonely, but you don’t really let yourself go there. It’s time, sis. It’s time to build community!

Why is it so hard to make and keep friends as a grown woman? You’re not alone. There are a whole bunch of Black women feeling the exact same way, and in this guide, we’re going to change all of that.

Tired of feeling like everyone else has their people, their squad, their village, and you’re just here? Showing up for folks who don’t show up for you. Waiting for invitations that never come. Wondering if you’re the problem. You’re not.

Making friends as a grown woman is hard. Life is busy. People are in different stages. Some friends disappear. Some friendships feel half-hearted. And let’s be real, Black women carry extra layers! Work stress, family stuff, cultural expectations, and sometimes a quiet loneliness nobody talks about.

That’s exactly why I created The Happy Black Girl’s Guide to Community. This is your playbook for stepping into the energy of real connection, showing up for yourself, and building friendships and spaces that actually feel good.

This is not a boring how-to guide. This is your homegirl telling you exactly what you need to hear, giving you the tools and the energy to start building the village you’ve been craving.

If you’ve been sitting around thinking no one gets it, no one understands, or no one sees you, this is your sign. You do not have to wait for someone else to create the space for you. You can start right now with the energy you already have.

Get your copy today and start stepping into the community you deserve. No waiting. No apologizing. Just showing up and claiming your space.

Inside this guide you’ll discover how to:

  • Stop waiting for the perfect group or perfect moment and start creating your own community

  • Show up for yourself in a way that naturally attracts the right friends

  • Spot friendships that are worth your energy and let go of the ones that aren’t

  • Navigate the different seasons of friendship without guilt or drama

  • Step into community with confidence, even when it feels scary

hi! I’m Zoë! Founder of Happy Black Girl and a recovering “I can do it all by myself ahh b\*%~!

I know oh too well what it feels like to find yourself “communityless” and isolated. For many of us, making friends as kids was so simple, but you get to your 20s, 30s, and 40s and all of a sudden life and connection is so complicated! You’re not alone sis! And I hope this guide helps Show you that you’re not alone and community is just a few steps away!

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