I was feeling frustrated with my interview performance, thinking I was doing something wrong. I knew I had the knowledge, but I struggled with presenting myself in the best way. Le’Siran’s bespoke coaching programme challenged me to reflect on myself and my patterns in a way I hadn’t before.
I used to shut down in interviews, struggling under pressure. If I didn’t get the job, I felt rejected and stressed, always questioning what went wrong. I was constantly trying to prove myself, especially to managers, and I felt like I had to stay up to date just to be taken seriously. I had an urgency to progress, and it preoccupied most of my thoughts.
During Coaching:
Le’Siran’s coaching approach is tailored, thought-provoking, and deeply reflective. Through our sessions, I was able to challenge my beliefs and behaviours—especially those I assumed were just “who I am.” I started recognising that many of my patterns weren’t my true self but habits I had formed over time.
A major shift happened in how I approached interviews. Instead of feeling pressure to say the “right” thing, I focused on whether I actually wanted the role. In one interview, I asked my own questions at the end and walked away feeling relieved, realising I didn’t even want the job. Normally, I would have felt rejected or stressed about not getting it. This time, I felt completely at peace, which surprised me.
After Coaching:
One of the biggest realisations was that I actually enjoy being a social worker. Recently, I handled some tough situations, and a headteacher even commented on how calmly and effectively I dealt with them. That’s when it hit me—I’m good at what I do, and I no longer feel the need to prove it constantly.
I’ve also let go of the constant urgency to progress. I still want to grow, but it no longer consumes my thoughts. Le’Siran’s coaching has helped me embrace confidence, self-acceptance, and a new way of thinking. I now trust my abilities without over-explaining or justifying myself.
Specific Changes:
More in control of my emotions and actions
More relaxed and calm in high-pressure situations
Choosing how I react rather than feeling compelled to respond a certain way
No longer feeling the need to prove myself constantly
Not getting bored as quickly—I still love a challenge, but I no longer lose interest after proving a point to myself
Before coaching, I blamed myself for not proving to others that I was better than they thought. I believed my life experience was holding me back, but really, I had set a vague, unreachable target for myself. Now, I don’t feel that same pressure.
Why I’m Continuing with Le’Siran’s Coaching Programme:
I’ve never felt as good about myself as I do right now. Walking into my second coaching programme with Le’Siran, I feel more self-assured, grounded, and ready to keep growing.
This programme isn’t just about career progression—it’s about transforming your mindset, challenging limiting beliefs, and truly stepping into your potential. Because of these shifts, I’ve decided to continue coaching with Le’Siran.