When I first came to coaching, I felt completely stuck. I’d lost my way with my social work career and was overwhelmed by all the different pathways. I didn’t know which direction suited me or what aligned with my strengths or purpose. On top of that, I’d been dealing with micro-aggressions and feeling unseen as a Black woman at work, and it really knocked my confidence. Coming back from maternity leave left me feeling out of touch with myself, my identity, and my faith. I just didn’t feel grounded.
I chose coaching because I was tired of feeling stagnant and going round in circles in my own mind. I’d been praying for clarity and guidance, and something in me finally said, “Just do it. You can’t stay like this.”
From the very first session, things started to shift.
Coaching helped me understand my career options properly for the first time. I gained clarity about which roles fit my strengths and where I genuinely felt called to be. I realised I’m meant for strategic work — influencing decisions, improving systems, and making change from the inside out. I even applied for LADO and Team Manager roles. Before coaching, I would never have put myself forward for them. Even though I wasn’t successful, I asked for feedback confidently and saw the applications as progress, not failure.
My confidence also grew in ways I didn’t expect. Instead of letting other people’s behaviour drain me, I started thinking, “What do I actually have control over?” I became more assertive, more open, and more honest about how I was feeling. I had conversations I would have avoided before, and it actually strengthened my relationships at work. A better support system formed around me, and I stopped feeling so isolated. People even started coming to me more naturally, and I felt more settled and more myself.
A big part of this journey was reconnecting with my faith. Coaching helped me return to God with more focus and intention. I started reading my Bible again, praying with purpose, and even talking more openly about my faith at work — something I normally only did if I felt it was “safe”. Listening to the Dear Christian Social Worker podcast helped me walk with purpose, pray with expectation, and see God’s hand in my career. It reminded me that God wouldn’t put something on my heart if He hadn’t equipped me for it.
I also learnt a lot about who I am. I realised that although I thought I believed in myself, I wasn’t actually living like I did. Coaching helped me re-centre myself, especially after becoming a mum and feeling like a part of me had been lost. I’ve become more reflective, more open, and more willing to be vulnerable — and that’s helped me grow more than I expected.
By the end of the programme, I felt clearer, stronger, and more grounded. I know now that strategic leadership is where I’m heading, and I’m taking real steps towards it. I’m not stagnant anymore — I’m moving forward, taking action, and trusting God with the process.
I’ve already told my friends to get coaching because it’s genuinely helped me to think clearly, plan properly, and hold myself accountable. For me, coaching has become a form of self-care — something I encourage others to do, but never used to give myself permission for.
I started this journey praying for direction, and coaching genuinely felt like the answer to that prayer. I’ve planted the seeds, I’ve watered them, and now I’m ready to keep growing and see it all blossom. I highly recommend Le'Siran's coaching.